mj-irl:

escapingintoabook:

As an introvert, the best thing is finding someone who it isn’t draining to spend time with

It’s interesting trying to explain to people who don’t experience social exhaustion that there are some people who are less draining than others and then their are those who are mind numbingly exhausting. All socializing is not equal

I feel like even being with people I enjoy spending time with very much can get tiring after a while – it’s just the amount of time before that happens that varies. Also I’m actually better with groups because in a group you don’t need to be talking (or paying attention) all the time lol, you can just take a break for a while and it doesn’t matter. This is why I absolutely don’t mind when my friends are talking about something I’m not interested in at all, cos I can just chill on my phone without feeling guilty lol.

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