castielsteenwolf:

yourspookyginger:

my anxiety has a loophole that if somebody is else is equally or more uncomfortable I develop the sudden ability to Do The Thing

i cant go and ask for more ketchup for myself but if my friend wants more ketchup im out of my seat in a second

I also have the opposite of this where if I’m with someone more competent/confident than me I can’t do anything at all, even if I’d be able to if i was by myself