Tbf life expectancy is now over 85 years. That’s still 20 years of life, and we know that elderly care is one of the most underfunded and forgotten backwaters of social care. I’m thinking this because my mum is 70, with various age-related health problems, and I don’t like being reminded that the time she’ll be here is getting ever more limited. Plus she voted remain, and she’s from a comfortable white middle class background, so really, if she can manage to not be a bigot, anyone can. If your parents or grandparents voted leave, you should’ve talked to them about it before the election. My mum was a lot more conservative before I was an adult and able to harangue her lol.